THE GIRL WHO SAID "NO"

'No'.......this word can make your life turn upside down !! This single word has the power to destroy beautiful things at the very first instance. It can ruin someone's life & cause damage to a person's  mental ,physical, emotional & spiritual well-being. You may never know the repercussions of using this very term. It's quite foolish.....when we don't care how deep our words can cut someone. & this word in particular has got all the powers to create havoc in anyone's life. You wanna know the reason for my hostility towards this word !??? ........Well this story is perfect explanation for my hatred.......!

The power of our words cannot be estimated easily. Our lips move continously through all our day making most of our oratory skills & these very skills are the root cause of several  accidents that we face daily. Arguments are inevitable & so are the deadly consequences. Children who are brought up in an atmosphere where harsh criticism, taunts, and mocking are their daily fare....... can and will easily internalize the sentiments behind the words. They learn that they aren't worth very much, and that if the adults around them think that of them, who are they to refuse the judgment???......& such experiences have a life long impact on personality & mental health of children .  As They grow up they learn not to trust themselves.They've been branded by sarcasm as not being worthy. 

Getting a compliment or hearing how well you've done is always an ego boost, yet when someone casually tosses cruel or careless slurs, the effects of negative words on the recipient are often avoided by the person who's insulting. Cruelty breeds cruelty.A child that grew up in such atmosphere will also fall for such traps & that gives rise to a criminal mind.